when being abandont

Grace Poe

A woman abandoned in a centrsl Philippine when she was a baby has topped an opinion poll barely two months ahead of elections to succeed President Benigno Aquino, an independent pollster.

Truth, we couldnt tell what would happen to one's in future. 

Moreover, people tend to pull others down as if they seeing someone who lonely. Being neglect, been pushing away  due of she just alone. 

When ones' being alone, she/he could able to think more productivel as her/his mind wasnt been influence by others. Poe may facing such situation which she couldnt tell to anyone. To me, being alone is hard, currently, we need something which back us up. Either we're in school environment. 

Ive been orphan place whereby their situation are more worst than us. I dont about Philippino candidate , Poe, but, Ive saw many orphan whom been tortue with ant, those guardians make many kind of treat. As if such orphan didnt like ant, they would put him near with tree which has thousand of ants. I dont know why they made such way. Maybe, they want him facing his own fear, or what. 

I just dont buy it.

But, as those orphans have their own parent, those parent wont led any danger near with their child, even ants. But, that orphanage homes has been ended their certificate in taking care those all orphans, because, I kind felt pity with him, his name Jefry.

I frequently went to such place in playing my role as third person instead of guardian to look at every orphans. Now, I could not ever see him. I hope he able to survive, he able to pull him together so as he always in positive mind 

when you are been pushing back and forth


Today, Ive seeing things that unusual. Which I couldnt expect been reacted by a woman. She unthinking straight while she talks to me.

I figured out why she can be that way, and why she too obsessed with her business. She told me that she couldnt work with others who is trouble. Trouble in knowing her. I said, what? Why you need someone to know you. You are just a normal next door girl that I know, currently.

She talk and talk. Yes, she very talkative. She talks about her husband, her daughter, and how many children she want to have.

That's basic. And, it's okay to have them as many as she want but, it's all depends of how much you gain as well. Thus, she been carried away with her husband who has new scandal girl. Younger than her. Okay, that's the big point to me and Ifigurede out how she gonna to stay with her husband long enough as if now, currently, he has the new "third-party" person in her life, in his heart.

Moreover, they just have a simple business, stalk which been located at not far from their house. 

Back to the point, where sahe hate her life. What? Why? She told everything is her fault because her husband told her so.

I couldnt believe she overthinking of whatever her husband wrong doing is about her. It dont buy me.

Why must believing others, who betrayed you. Who has other person than you, and you still thinking of he still loving you? As if he didnt love you no more. Why cant just step back and take a new vision? Because, we, as human , has limit of time. How come we need to waste our time with person who betrayed us? Who keep on going telling us lie and still we put6 trust on them?

Moreover, Ive friends like her several girls as they still have relation with others who try to kill them with bare hand? Their couple try to choke his girlfriend and she still keep on giving all her paycheck to that man.

I dont buy it.

To me, it's simple.

As ones' did wrong doing to us, we better move on by taking the new step of get away from this negative person. As if you still stay with this kind of person, he/she may make you under power of control by applying horrible words to you. If you readers been related with this man, why you should let him to do anything that he want upon yourselves? 

When you choosen not too




Surviving to get completion, at the first line, people wont make it to perfection, some of us keep on practising to be better and better everyday, but just a few percentages would giving all their best to become the best. The result might be vary.

Moreover, people dont ever want fail of something, anything whichever they had work for it after spending time and expenses in duration of long term. Still, when time one get marry, they have set their mind to have the best marriage like every happy couple until death apart them.

Someone, what would happen as if their couple treat them badly. Having argument for almost everyday. Everyday felt unhappy with those attitude came from your own beloved couple. Plus, he betrayed you while you were at workplace. And, he knock you with statement that framed you as you are worst than him even though you did not doing anything.

Plus, there are many lorry driver bringing their wife with them while their working. It's not wrong to bring wife whilst working but what makes it wrong is, they asking to drive that lorry while their working hour. There is more, at the end of such month, that salary didnt been divided to give to wife for buying groceries expenses. Let say there are driver, some of driver giving allowance to their wife in order for her to fullfill family expenses, bils, utilities and others, but, too many of husbvand nowaday keep on taking granted upon their wife goodsake.

Women, normally, felt they have to help her husband in order whatever happened in family would be in schedule, but, the thing is, we should not do everything for the family and let us suffer alone while husband easily let all of commitments rely on us.

Women, has been made soft creature, but, passion. Moreover, God made women love everything beauty or/and what related with her. Then, she would stick with it and took care for it, even it needed sacrifice, several sacrifice included with money, she couldnt buy what she needs as to pay for all expenses whichever related in household, her household.

The other thing is, as if man whom been husband has been pampered and , plus, been completed by some allowance such as cigarrette, they would need more from his own wife, so as to give more.

Thus, woman been treat badly by her own couple, even , she was helping her husband the first place.

Reliable to get enough for every expenses in its own household, woman has pushing indirectly to get more instead of working. This is not been practised by other countries such as Bangladesh, for instant, they work alone as to help for the whole relatives under the same roof, which is family.

But, some of mass, couldnt accept as woman been stay at house and man work. They thinking that, both partner shoould work together so as to get more in term of financial.
Step before punching the door girls.  


When narrow space


 Betterment for big size,  people always spacious place for family to grow up.Certainly, we want our children grow up with good manner.

That's parent who love their family more than themselves and keeping uo their work to have more money so as they can fulfill their dependants needs. However, there are cases whereby, it guardian breach those trust. Those native fathers who raped their daughter are certainly didnt think of her conditions and yet, her emotion.

He worked at site and he rarely staying at home due of his work shift has three shift and he stayed at hostel whereby company gave to every employee. But, once he went home, he raped his daughter. 

What he was thinking? That he was an awesome person just raped others who under his guardian?

Why he was so mean , as he breach that trust?

We, supposed , have to love each other. Because god want us to love everybody who near us, also far from us. Also, our life is short and yet, media always shown how bad people are. How selfish people were.

But, we cannot assume all people whom stayed in such community as the same behavior. Thus, religion also been stated we can't set aside others. Or maybe we do have limited sources and we couldnt help others. But


is it bloom already

To me, currently Ive made my personalise achievement via my blog, beside my new gold collection (which is I like ther most of its quality and it guarantee of its investment return-that's for sure).

Betterment in life, basking in success despite rough start and the most important, presistence, that's the best ingredient on having money stick in our wallet, instead of buying enough food for the whole family, including my foster child adam,3.

But, I never complaint why my past histories happened such occured. I never did that. I always bare in my mind what happen to me , god love me and He showed me everything that I should know. 


lucky me

why awe

Malysian has received a shock news when Tun M has claimed that he had been a new bestie to opposition. Tun M, who likely by over the world wide instead of Malaysian itself has made many of reburshment which given Malaysian the huge of good impact and yet, those impact absolutely giving large beneficial to both tourism and monetary currency as well.

But, somehow that was before, still, today news, Tun M has decided turn over opposition and people in Umno were not surprise as he seems to be an enermy of that organisation for more than year.

Still, as  some of them pointed out that Tun was doing better job than the rest even when he was inside. To me, this news may give huge impact to such organisation and thus, there would be more problem to overcome as Tun M is the best influenced and he is the one who bring Malaysia stated in world map.

Plus, I have spend more than a decade related my blog-work via internet and I admit , strongly admit , it was hard fore me to apply my address here in Malaysia.

Yet, Dr Mahathir I admit he is quite incredible person, 90 years and still keep on going , and I totally saluted with him as no one, no one could perform job so well except him to overcome our Malaysia financial problem which in 1998 , as economy was drastically fluctuated and as if other prime minister wsould certainly want International Monetary Fund assist but Dr Mahathir was not taking any offer from them.


When girl beauty without brain

Empathy of women nowaday, they are terrific in their attires. They can facing mirror for a long hours just in shaping her brow. They spend more than sixty percent of their paycheck for their toilettries.

People , who, outsider, felt weird women, nowaday, could ever involved with such stuff

However, there are certain who been with someone; someone whomever been mistaken by girl , been pick as a boyfriend. Girl could ever be every girl , either girl who came from rich-generation-family or otherwise. Girl or/and boy is the same, we need someone , to loived, to beloved, and feel in need. The most important, need someone to be with.  Someone been by your own side.




why women need to work

In handling work as full time house wife, may getting yourselves tired of taking care of kids, clothes washing once those laundry basket has been full, car needs to clean, neatly, living room has to fill with roses smell, for instant.

The time which been spend by house wife might been limit only in house space, and friend with other house wife whom willing to tell you other person gossip even, such person open house been attend, yeah, that's what we called as a human.

But, thinking your husband could able to stay put with your relationship, marriage relationship, you thought your relationship with husband may last long.

However, in depending others may put our selves triggered. I'm not saying that your husband may betrayed you, but, there other things that need to consider.

If let say, your husband been end up an tremendous accident how you gonna feed you yourselves, kids and husband himself. What about the rest? Like your car need to pay monthly, your living house now, our kid educational?

#reactivatedyourselves

when they're expatriates


Women, keep on thinking how would they can pay the best 0rize for their youth. They keep doing things that aren't giving more and create enough for their child. Hoping their business to get easy money even they know economic aren't so well. They don't have enough money to capitalized their own business as they keep using all money their have to give their youth so as their child gaining some food while in school.

Most of them, with a big heart and big vision to get their youth to stay con for, they, themselves wake out from the couch and moving to other develop country to get a job and more money in term of monetary currencies that pay more. They don't care about what will going to happen as they have set up their mind that they want to work and raise their kids with no worries.

When, they arrived at other country, they keep on annoy of those thing that make them worry. Robbery, riot, and other worst nightmare ; they just step aside.


when thing came out

I heard so many issues related with such woman. Who been framed by her own relative, been cheat with anynomous person when there is a gap of advantage. Things going all wrong as she just an old lady who doesn't have anyone on her back. Plus, things might become worst day by day as her ex husband, who 80's ages shouting , screaming at her , on her face, didn't care on anyone been crowded whom wants to know what going around.

But, he might thought she just a lonely old lady and that's the reason he keep on yelling at her. Telling how pathetic she was. However, most of the crowds have sound mind who feel terrible of what has had happened facing this old lady.

When time has come, the mean guy had had a mistake with a wrong guy and yet he hav bring all his crony and yet letting him down as they did not care. 

Once I see his face, I know he feel terrible as all crony before this keep on waiting this moment as want to find the convenience time to knock him out. 

Yes

He get the suit fighter for him as, again, it happened just at front of this old lady house.

God is almighty

why you have to defend yourselves

Exactly , the way of everyone is different by their own way.

why you need to end now

We all are women. Who is need someone to take of and with. We spending more than £ 200 per month just for facial caring due of to attract someone you love.

However, you can see and deep that, as if you call him again and again; and yet he is typically not feel good or not sound good ( which you know the tone) and why you keep on telling yourselves as he is busy with his business even though his business not quite busy. Moreover, he target you calling him at such time and that's it. Furthermore, let say he so loving you, he will pick up the from person that he loved

And other thing, he is not respect you either. He kept on telling the worst ever you going to heard. He made you cry over and over. He compare you with other girl, who is just average , not so pretty.

why you need to find several reason to be happy

Happy, is the word we love to apply it since we were child. And we always hang u0 with somwleone who is the same opinion as us, who we called as a friend. Later, as we always keep in touch with them, and even a day we met new person and there fore we actually been changing our mind for such aspect. 

Moreover, we can decided what are such type of friend we were more loved to hang out with. Plus, we will get a new stuff from our what ha0pened in our surrounding or what are the coop gaghet might attract us more